Have
you ever been stuck in some way that you feel you can’t escape from, whether
it’s a situation, a relationship, a job, or just circumstances? In Rhoda
Baxter’s new novel ‘Please Release Me’ myBook.to/PleaseReleaseMe, the three leading characters are all stuck in a
difficult situation from which there seems to escape. She’s asked me to blog my
own experiences of being stuck and I’m happy to do that since it fits in with
my memoir-themed blog.
The
best example I can think of is when I was stranded in New York City in the
early 1960s. At that time, I was working as a mother’s helper in Princeton, New
Jersey in the United States and, on one of my days off, went to New York to
meet a friend. At the last moment, another English girl working in Princeton,
decided to come with me to meet a friend of her own. I didn’t mind as Linda and
I were good friends anyway.
All went well until the time came
to meet her as arranged at Port Authority Bus Terminal ten minutes before the
last bus was due to leave for Princeton. The seconds ticked away, but she
didn’t arrive. Knowing I couldn’t leave her stranded in New York alone, I
watched the Princeton bus depart. Five minutes later, she arrived, flushed and
breathless. ‘I’m sorry I’m late, Anne. Would you believe, the cabbie lost his
way? Still, we can catch a later bus, can’t we?’
‘Sorry, Linda, no bus now until
morning.’
She was appalled. What on earth
are we going to do?’
‘I was just wondering that
myself.’
‘Why don’t we try the waiting
room? Perhaps we can kip down there,’ she suggested. As we walked towards the
waiting room, we noticed that with the last of the buses, the character of the
bus station had changed. Gone was the bustling urgency of people with a
destination, instead there was the apathy of people with nowhere to go, ambling
individuals, obviously trying to weigh up what two attractive young women were
doing on their own in a bus station that had all but closed for the night.
The waiting room, never a
salubrious place, had been taken over by the drunks and down-and-outs,
stretched here and there on the uncomfortable benches. Linda and I looked at
each other and with one accord, walked out again. ‘So much for that idea,’ she
sighed. ‘What do we do now?’
‘How much money do you have?’ I
asked.
‘A little change and my pay
cheque. Coming at the last minute, I didn’t have time to cash it.’
‘And I only have a few dollars.
Why don’t we try the YWCA?’ I’d stayed at the YWCA hostel several times before.
I phoned the night clerk at the
YWCA hostel, explaining that we were two British girls stranded in New York who
needed somewhere to stay. ‘Sure, no problem,’ he said. ‘Come on over, you can
have a room.’ The amount he quoted was in excess of the cash we had, plus we’d
need money for the cab fare to the hostel. I explained that we didn’t have that
much cash but that Linda did have her pay cheque.
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‘Is it on a New York bank?’ he
asked.
I checked with Linda. ‘No, a
Princeton bank.’
‘Then I can’t help you,’ he said.
‘But we’ve nowhere to go!’
‘Sorry, lady, no cash, no room.’
Then I remembered that my
employer’s cousin lived in New York, he might be listed in the phone book,
perhaps he could help. He was and he could, though he wasn’t pleased to be
woken at that time of night by someone he scarcely knew. Finally, he came up
with the answer. We were to take a cab to his club, ask for Joe (it really was
Joe!), the night clerk at the club, who would give us enough money to get us a
room at the YWCA for what remained of the night. While we caught a cab to the
club, he would phone Joe and arrange for the money to be available.
We got a cab, the money and a
twin-bedded room at the YWCA and one might think our immediate problems were
over. Not so.
Linda, who’d had a heavy cold,
coughed all night so that neither of us got much sleep. The night seemed
endless and I was glad when it was time to get up. There was no time even for a
coffee, we’d missed the early bus because we’d both dozed off just before dawn.
The bus station had an early morning bustle that was in stark contrast to the
night before and there was a queue for the bus even before it arrived. Linda
wasn’t coughing now but clung to me for support. Of a sudden she turned to me
and in a low voice, said, ‘Anne, I do feel ill,’ and collapsed at my feet.
We’d heard stories about the
callousness of New Yorkers but in our case it was different. A young soldier
picked the unconscious Linda up and laid her on a bench while other people
clustered round, offering suggestions. A cop, drawn to the commotion, came and
took charge of the situation, suggesting that I take a cab and get her to
hospital. Embarrassed, I explained that we had no money to pay for medical
treatment and he told me that there was a charity hospital not far away. He got
the cab and the soldier lifted her inside, by which time she had come round,
while the cop gave the cabbie instructions.
I don’t know which hospital we
went to, although I remember that it was dim, quiet, drab and there were a lot of
nuns around. We’d to wait a long time and the doctor, when he came, was tired
and rumpled. Tests and x-rays followed before we were told that Linda had
pneumonia. He explained that they had no admission facilities for out of town
patients and that I should get her back to Princeton as quickly as possible.
Both exhausted from lack of sleep
and the emotion-packed events, the journey home was a nightmare. We had to take
yet another cab to Port Authority, then wait for the next bus, while all the
time Linda was on the point of slipping back into unconsciousness. On the bus,
the passengers were kindness itself and the bus driver uncomplaining when he
had to pull over a couple of times to enable Linda to clamber out into the
fresh air which revived her enough to continue the journey.
Linda’s employer whisked her to the hospital, then
to some friends to recuperate, and from thence shipped her back to the UK while
I ended up repaying all the money we’d had to borrow.
‘Please
Release Me’ sounds a fascinating book and I’m looking forward to reading it.
Here’s a taster of what it’s about.
What if you could only watch as your bright
future slipped away from you?
Sally Cummings has had it tougher than most
but, if nothing else, it’s taught her to grab opportunity with both hands. And,
when she stands looking into the eyes of her new husband Peter on her perfect
wedding day, it seems her life is finally on the up.
That is until the car crash that puts her in
a coma and throws her entire future into question.
In the following months, a small part of
Sally’s consciousness begins to return, allowing her to listen in on the world
around her – although she has no way to communicate.
But Sally was never going to let a little
thing like a coma get in the way of her happily ever after …..
Here’s
the link again if you’re interested. myBook.to/PleaseReleaseMe
